Letters from Tom Henderson

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February 27, 1955


Dear Alec & Evalyn:

	I know I have been neglecting you a lot recently, but things here as regards 
Bess dont improve.  She doesn't remember anything five minutes that she is 
told, and I'm quite convinced it is just her habit of not paying attention, to 
what is told her, plus her studied laziness that keeps me on the anxious seat 
all the time.  I told her a few days ago that when I left here for Scotland 
(D.V.) she *would not be here*:  then she spoke of getting her things in 
storage.  Probably 9/10 of what she possesses is plain junk, and I 
would certainly not permit her to burden some home with it.  I told her she 
would have to confine her needs to a couple of suit cases.  When she came out 
here now nearly eight years ago I paid her way, and Robert paid her freight 
bill of some $130.00 plus.  Since then I have sent her back to Chicago twice 
paying her traveling expense both ways.

	These things I'm not grumbling about now.  They are history, but the present 
predicament is a steady headache for me for she cant be trusted to use the 
electric range, or else as has happened many, many times in the last few 
months, things boil over, and it takes endless effort to get the range back in 
shape.  She doesn't remember where to find things that she is constantly using 
in the kitchen e.g. she asked me the other day if we had a tea pot, and I told 
her it was on the shelf above the electric range where it always is but even 
then I had to come out and put it into her hand, and then it dawned upon her 
that she had seen it before:  and she has been using it for years.

	I am making preparations to have her in a home while I am gone-- probably 
about seven weeks with Jim, but I'm convinced that after that we will have to 
provide a home for her somewhere else.  In that connection, she having lived in 
Washington over five years is entitled to *some* care from the state provided 
she has no funds of her own.

	She doesn't seem to remember whether she has any bonds in the Reserve Bank in 
Chicago, but if she has they will have to be used up in the ordinary way before 
she could demand State help.  In other words the state wouldnt consent to them 
being sold out of her possession, and then immediately ask the state for 
assistance for her.  It looks as if someone will have to be appointed guardian 
for her, and I am trying to see the local state branch in that connection and 
get things under way before we head for Scotland.

	A few weeks ago, I had a call from Evelyn in Eugene -- they found themselves 
up against trouble in connection with the new home they have been building for 
themselves there.

	Owing to some new regulations of the F.H.A., they found they couldnt qualify 
for their loan, and their house was nearly completed, so they were confronted 
with either getting out of it or trying to locate elsewhere so they needed 
$2500.00 which I sent at once.

	That caused me to change my will, and observe in it that the amount forwarded 
to her would have to apply on any remainder my estate might have for dividing 
at my passing.

	These things Alex are not going to detain Jim and me from our trip, and I only 
hope our health may keep sound until we have seen the old sod again.

	In a letter to the Carlton Hotel in Edinburgh recently asking for reservation 
of a room there for at least a week, I had in my letter quoted the first verse 
of Canto 6 Scotts Lay of the Last Minstrel.

	Just for fun I'll give you all the first verse from memory.  Maybe you 
memorized it long ago -- but here it is from my memory

	"Breathes there the man with soul so dead
	Who never to himself hath said:
	This is my own my native land.
	Whose heart hath nee'r within him burned
	As home his footsteps he has turned
	From wandering on a foreign strand.
	   If such there breathe go mark him well
	For him no minstrel raptures swell.
	High though his titles proud his name
	Boundless his wealth as wish can claim
	Despite those titles, power and pelf
	The wretch concentered all in self --
	Living shall forfeit fair renown,
	And, doubly dying shall go down
	To the vile dust from whence he sprung
	Unwept, unhonored, and unsung.

	That's not bad for Sir Walter -- I doubt if I could have improved on it, even 
if I had been some punkins on this earth.

	Well now Alec I'll have to cut this short and get up to the mail box with it 
for there's only one collection on Sunday

		Much love always to both of you

			Tom


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